Making it an exquisite choice for a holiday romance. This reimagined landmark offers independence and stylish accommodations, perfect for those desiring a unique and intimate couples retreat in the heart of La Jolla’s seaside village.
Best Romantic Getaways in San Diego
San Diego, with its sun-kissed beaches and vibrant districts, is the perfect destination for a romantic weekend getaway for couples. From Gaslamp Quarter’s historic charm to La Jolla’s soothing waves, the city offers countless settings for love to bloom.
Top 3 Romantic Getaways in San Diego
$407 / per night
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Offers a romantic getaway that transports couples to Bali with its ocean views and Indonesian-inspired decor. This romantic hotel in La Jolla is perfect for those seeking an exotic couples getaway, complete with hand-chosen furnishings and serene outdoor spaces for intimate moments.
$395 / per night
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Above the ocean, this hotel offers a serene romantic retreat on San Diego’s Pacific Beach. Featuring Four Diamond luxury, guests can relax on the private balcony, with poolside massages, or on the beach, perfect for a weekend getaway for couples.
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$433 / per night
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Emerges as a contemporary, music-themed romantic hotel ideal for couples’ retreats. Its rooftop pool, the renowned Nobu restaurant, and complimentary guitar rentals offer a distinctive blend of luxury and rock ‘n’ roll ethos, perfect for romantic hotels for couples seeking an unconventional escape.
Hotel Indigo San Diego-Gaslamp Quarter, an IHG Hotel
509 9th Avenue, San Diego, CA
See available rooms $349 / per night
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Making it a prime romantic hotel choice for couples looking to explore the vicinity of Petco Park and the convention center. Adorned with cozy fire pits and offering breathtaking views, serves as a stylish urban oasis for a remarkable weekend getaway.
$609 / per night
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Stands as a beacon of elegance on La Jolla’s shores. This iconic romantic hotel combines the charm of its signature pink exterior with panoramic Pacific coastline views, offering a quintessential backdrop for couples. The Med’s ocean-facing dining enhances the allure.
$309 / per night
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On a private peninsula with stunning views of the Pacific Ocean and Coronado Bay. This romantic resort is perfect for couples, offering luxurious spa services, three pools, and access to Silver Strand Beach.
$264 / per night
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An exquisite romantic hotel for couples nestled in the heart of downtown. Ideal for those in pursuit of a refined and unforgettable romantic journey near San Diego’s premier attractions.
$523 / per night
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Marries the classic charm of Southern California with contemporary luxury, making it a premier romantic hotel. This establishment strikes a perfect harmony between elegance and comfort, providing an idyllic retreat for couples seeking a romantic escape amid the city’s most vibrant attractions.
$1,099 / per night
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Rancho Valencia Resort &; Spa, nestled on 45 acres of lush gardens, offers an idyllic romantic getaway for couples seeking peace and luxury in Southern California. This all-suite Mediterranean-inspired sanctuary features a Forbes 5 Star spa and tennis facilities, ensuring a memorable couples retreat.
The Lodge at Torrey Pines
11480 North Torrey Pines Road, La Jolla, San Diego, CA
See available rooms $477 / per night
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In La Jolla, the lodge offers a romantic getaway with Craftsman-style elegance and Scottish doormen. Overlooking the renowned Torrey Pines Golf Course and the Pacific Ocean, enjoy luxurious comforts, regional cuisine at A.R. Valentien, and rejuvenating spa treatments for an unparalleled couples retreat.
$769 / per night
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An opulent romantic hotel for couples, offering a refined oasis in the busy center of San Diego. Just steps from the Gaslamp Quarter, it serves as an ideal starting point for urban exploration, while its luxurious accommodations offer a sanctuary for couples.
$369 / per night
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The hotel epitomizes the endless summer with beachside accommodations and ocean-view rooms. Featuring private balconies, contemporary surf and turf dining, and a luxurious sun deck, it provides a perfect backdrop for a romantic weekend getaway, ideal for couples looking to bask in sweeping ocean vistas.
$453 / per night
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Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa beckons couples to San Diego’s secret garden, a hacienda-style haven between La Jolla and Del Mar. This romantic retreat has lush gardens, tranquil courtyards, and a full-service spa, offering a serene escape with rancho-inspired luxury and sun-drenched charm.
$403 / per night
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Ideal for a romantic hotel experience for couples. With newly renovated rooms showcasing the city and bay, this hotel combines relaxation, dining, and vibrant nightlife, ensuring an unforgettable escapade with breathtaking views and bespoke service
$571 / per night
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Promises a timeless beachfront escape on the West Coast. With its majestic Victorian architecture and modern comforts, this romantic resort sets the scene for a memorable romantic retreat amidst the powdery white sands of the Pacific.
$409 / per night
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Offering a luxurious weekend getaway for couples in Southern California. Overlooking the Pacific, this resort is your romantic dream home by the sea, with estate-style accommodations, a full-service spa, and dreamy dining options.
$314 / per night
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At Omni La Costa Resort & Spa, enjoy a Spanish Colonial haven with a world-class spa, championship golf, and pools. Near Carlsbad’s beaches, it offers a romantic getaway with luxurious amenities, making it a perfect Southern California escape for couples seeking relaxation and adventure.
$289 / per night
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This idyllic resort serves as a sanctuary for couples in search of a secluded romantic getaway, with sandy beaches, relaxing spa treatments, and a variety of dining options, all combining to offer a serene departure from daily life.
$289 / per night
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Beachfront romantic retreat in Imperial Beach, blending elegance and relaxation with stunning ocean views. This exclusive hotel features plush accommodations and private beach access, ideal for couples seeking a sophisticated weekend getaway near San Diego’s attractions.
The Guild Hotel, San Diego, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
500 W Broadway, San Diego, CA
See available rooms $509 / per night
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Blends timeless elegance with contemporary opulence, establishing itself as an exceptional romantic hotel for a getaway. Positioned close to the Gaslamp Quarter, it offers artisanal cuisine and tailored service, crafting an unforgettable retreat for couples amidst the vibrant renewal of San Diego.
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$179 / per night
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Exudes European elegance with panoramic city views, making it an exquisite backdrop for a romantic hotel retreat. Its luxury accommodations, rooftop pool, and spa provide a serene sanctuary amidst the city’s excitement, offering a blend of relaxation and sophistication for a weekend getaway for couples.
$249 / per night
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Located on Shelter Island, serves as an idyllic romantic retreat close to San Diego’s attractions. This tropical resort-style hotel is a sanctuary for couples, offering comfort and convenience with a touch of Southern California hospitality, ideal for a couples getaway.
$219 / per night
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Romantic hotel experience with its bungalow-style accommodations set against tropical backdrops. Featuring a marina, outdoor pools, and dining by the water, this hotel offers a tranquil setting ideal for couples in search of a relaxed romantic getaway in San Diego.
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$275 / per night
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This romantic boutique hotel, known for its cozy ambiance and complimentary beach gear, is just blocks from the ocean, making it an ideal couples retreat for those seeking a blend of relaxation and coastal adventure.
$564 / per night
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This hotel captivates with its blend of natural beauty and opulent amenities, making it an unparalleled romantic getaway destination. Engage in outdoor activities across 400 acres, relax at the five-star spa, and dine at San Diego’s only three-Michelin-starred restaurant for a truly luxurious romantic retreat.
$471 / per night
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Ideally situated near the Gaslamp District and Little Italy, this hotel places you in the city’s soul. The hotel invites couples on a romantic getaway to dine at The Desmond, celebrating San Diego cuisine with a unique twist in a stylish, welcoming environment.
How to get the most out of the romantic getaway in San Diego?
To get the most out of a romantic getaway in San Diego, couples should blend exploration with relaxation, creating a perfect balance that caters to both their adventurous spirits and the desire for intimate moments. Here’s how:
- Plan Ahead but Be Flexible: Research and book some must-visit spots and experiences, like a sunset cruise around San Diego Bay or a couples massage at one of the luxurious spas. However, leave room in your itinerary for spontaneous adventures or simply lounging by the beach.
- Stay in a Romantic Hotel or B&B: Opt for accommodations that offer special amenities for couples, such as rooms with ocean views, private balconies, or in-room hot tubs. Locations like Coronado Island or the cliffside hotels in La Jolla provide an idyllic backdrop for romance.
- Dine with a View: San Diego’s culinary scene is as diverse as its landscape. Book a table at a restaurant with panoramic views of the Pacific Ocean or the city skyline. Consider dining in Little Italy for an intimate evening with authentic Italian fare or in Gaslamp Quarter for a variety of gourmet options.
- Explore Nature Together: Connect with each other and nature by visiting places like Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve for a hike or Balboa Park for a leisurely walk through lush gardens and stunning architecture. A day trip to nearby Julian to sample apple pies or a visit to the vineyards in Temecula can also add a sweet note to your getaway.
- Catch a Sunset Together: No romantic getaway in San Diego is complete without watching a sunset. Head to Sunset Cliffs, La Jolla Cove, or even the deck of your hotel to witness the sky paint itself in hues of orange and pink, creating a magical moment to share.
- Embrace Local Events: Check the local calendar for any events happening during your stay, such as outdoor concerts, art shows, or festivals that could offer unique experiences and memories.
- Create a Souvenir Together: Instead of buying something, create a memory. This could be a piece of art from a local workshop, a photo album of your trip, or even a custom-blended wine from a vineyard visit.
Remember, the essence of a romantic getaway for couples lies not just in the activities you do, but in enjoying each other’s company and creating lasting memories together. San Diego, with its endless charm and beauty, provides the perfect canvas for couples to paint their love story.
Google reviews for Romantic Getaways in San Diego
We had a great stay at Orli! It was our first trip with our newborn baby and it couldn't have gone better. Our room was clean, classy, and comfortable. The staff were extremely helpful and went out of their way to make us confirmed and make sure we had what we needed. I especially liked the cold brew on tap.
The Orli in La Jolla is a wonderful little hotel within a short walk of the ocean and all the best restaurants La Jolla has to offer. The staff is very friendly and knowledgeable about the area. The hotel itself is a beautiful building that is freshly redone and very nice. Highly recommended.
The Orli is very remarkable! During our stay, the Orli team was so accommodating and sensitive to our needs. The Consierge "Mia" surprised us with a beautiful flower arrangement as she sensed some tension upon our arrival. This small gesture brought huge smiles and meaningful comfort. The Orli feels like our home away from home. We'll be back soon!
What a lovely hotel. The owners did a fantastic job of hiring an incredible staff who made the experience over the top. We felt so well taken care of. It was the perfect place to wind down for peace and quiet after the end of each vacation day in La Jolla.
Our stay at the Orli was simply WONDERFUL!!! What a gem!! There was nothing left to chance & every little detail had beautiful touches of elegance, creativity & thoughtfulness. The staff went above and beyond to accommodate any questions or needs — they were all so nice, professional and helpful. Every person that we had the pleasure of meeting seemed authentically invested in making the Orli a truly special place & experience for their guests. The rooms were meticulously kept & squeaky clean, the beds were SUPER comfortable, and there were too many special touches to begin to count 🙂 Suffice it to say we felt genuinely cared for — a true home away from home. Located in a quiet neighborhood area of La Jolla, but still central and easy walking distance to anywhere we wanted to go — the beach, shopping & restaurants. We are so happy to have found this lovely gem, and can’t wait to come back!!! Thank you so much to our new friends at the Orli — you made our stay special and truly memorable!! With love & appreciation, Joe & Hege.
Our little family really appreciated the opportunity to enjoy the wonderful facilities, location, and service at the Pantai Inn! Everything in our room was beautiful and comfortable. Loved the space, the sun room with the fountain outside the windows, the fireplace, the desk, the seating area outside our front door, and the fully equipped kitchen. Bedding was clean and comfortable, mattresses and pillows were just right, and we appreciated the details througout the entire suite. Except for the construction noise currently taking place in the park across the street, and landscaping crews doing their job, room was very quiet and peaceful, and perfect for ocean views and people watching. Parking was right outside the kitchen door, making unloading/loading of our things very convenient. Breakfast is your typical warm continental breakfast, but included fresh fruits and wonderful earthy teas... If you eat in their patio, remember to not leave your food unattended, because the seagulls will steal it away! In the lobby you will find endless supply of fresh drinking water and coffee, bottled water, and sodas, and cookies all included in your room fee. They also had in the lobby nice umbrellas to help you shelter from the rain. Location was not only covenient for walking to the beaches, restaurants, retail and CVS Pharmacy, but it was also safe to walk at night. Staff was so attentive and helpful, and we really appreciated Doris going beyond the call of duty when we missed our breakfast after taking a long walk in the beach in the early morning. Also, Edwin was so kind for taking the time to tell us about the history of the hotel, and helping us during our stay. The only thing we would replace in our room is the glass dining table with a solid table, but that's just a preference, and the cushions of the living room to make them firmer. Thank you Pantain Inn, for helping us collect new wonderful memories for our family! We hope to be back in the not-so-distant future!
The ocean front suite is amazing! Spacious, clean, lovely. Edwin, the manager, provided superior service to me and my older mother. I’ll be back and will bring others to share this oceanfront experience.
This is a hidden gem right on the ocean in La Jolla. Our room had a balcony overlooking the ocean and it was so nice to sit out there and listen to the ocean. Pantai has a breakfast buffet and it was wonderful to eat breakfast on their outdoor patio. We will definitely visit again, highly recommended.
For years we have stayed at La Valencia hotel down the street but decided to try something different. In addition we owned a eco resort and restaurant in Panama for years and understand the challenges of the business. With that said I will list pros and cons rather than writing a negative review.Pros:Location is perfect. The outstanding staff that cooked and served the Thanksgiving meal. Dory prepared a meal that was unique and superb and the staff was extremely hospitable.Appreciated the complimentary water in the lobby. The man who said he was the owner of the hotel was very hospitable.Cons:Check in was awkward and felt like we were bothering the couple at the desk. The young lady who showed us to our room did just that then turned around and walked away. We usually do a family trip in March so we pulled the guest bed down to see if it would sleep 2 but the feet were broken. We opened the blinds the next morning by the desk and they came falling off the wall. They had been situated just so to not look broken. The air intake grate was very dirty as were the lamps and the glass on the nightstands. The lamp shade broken in the bedroom and debris under the coffee table.The fees you pay are for parking and a resort fee. They are a Inn with no amenities so I suppose the resort fee is to cover the complimentary water, coffee and breakfast. Our first night was not pleasant as a family carried on outside our front windows and upstairs until 1:00 a.m. The lobby is right next door and the attendant should have come forward to insure all other guests at the inn had a pleasant evening.Overview: This could definitely turn around to be a great place with some time spent on training and coaching. Longtime employees should be rejuvenated by the hospitality group who run this Inn after the purchase from the family.We will go elsewhere for our family gathering and return to La Valencia next Thanksgiving.Thank you
My experience there is extremely pleasant. I reserved the biggest room, and the view was amazing. Staff is super friendly and polite. A very short walking distance from nice restaurants. It is a small hotel, and it feels like it is the right size. Breakfast is pretty decent. I highly recommend this hotel if it is in your budget
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FAQs about romantic getaways in San Diego
What is the typical price range for a romantic getaway in San Diego?
For couples planning a romantic getaway in San Diego, the price range can vary widely based on the choice of accommodations, dining, and activities. Budget-friendly options might start from $150 to $250 per night for accommodations, while luxury hotels and resorts can range from $300 to over $600 per night. Dining and activities can adjust the budget further. For a moderate experience, including meals, activities, and a mid-range hotel, couples should budget approximately $800 to $1,200 for a weekend. Costs can increase with premium experiences like private tours, upscale dining, and spa treatments.
When is the best time to visit San Diego for a romantic getaway?
The best time for a romantic getaway in San Diego is during the shoulder seasons — spring (March to May) and fall (September to November). These periods offer mild weather, fewer crowds, and more competitive rates for accommodations. The spring blooms and the fall sunsets provide a stunning backdrop for any romantic excursion. While summer (June to August) boasts warm weather and beach days, it also brings higher prices and more tourists. Winter (December to February) can be a great time to enjoy lower rates and cooler weather, ideal for couples who prefer a more intimate setting without the hustle of peak seasons.
Are there any unique romantic experiences in San Diego that couples shouldn’t miss?
San Diego offers an array of unique romantic experiences that cater to different interests and desires. One not-to-be-missed experience is a hot air balloon ride over Del Mar at sunset, offering breathtaking views of the coastline and landscape. For ocean-loving couples, a private sailing excursion around San Diego Bay can create an unforgettable day, complete with champagne and scenic vistas. Lastly, exploring the vineyards of Temecula with a personalized wine tasting tour adds a touch of elegance and indulgence to any romantic retreat. Each of these experiences provides a special way to make lasting memories together.
How to book a hotel for a romantic getaway in San Diego?
Our selection includes the top-rated hotels for a romantic getaway in San Diego. You’ll find details about the rooms, hotel ratings, location, and a brief introduction. After choosing a hotel, click ‘See available rooms‘ to navigate to our partner’s site. Enter your travel dates to see room availability. The website will compare prices on different platforms to provide the best deal for you. After redirection, you will need to enter the rest of the details about your stay. Some hotels allow pay-on-arrival, while others require upfront payment with the option of free cancellation.
